Most people who know me know that I'm not on Facebook. My reasons are pretty much the same as anyone else who's not on Facebook. And I guess it could be said that I miss out on a lot of information as a result. But I get information just the same (you know, the old fashioned way), and sometimes it's not the best of news.
I learned earlier last week that one of my university classmates had passed away the weekend prior. His name was Sean. He was a really nice guy, and sadly someone I had lost touch with over the years. I learned of his passing through another of my classmates with whom I talk regularly, who found out via a post that Sean's brother had made on Sean's Facebook page. Naturally, I peppered her with questions, like how it happened, and what the funeral arrangements were, and so on. Strangely, it was a vague post, and it seems like they don't know how or why he died. That makes it all the more tragic in my eyes. I'm hoping time will reveal more.
Born out of this sad news is the consolation that a bunch of my classmates and I are getting together next Sunday for lunch. It's one of the largest class gatherings we've had since graduation. Granted, we've all spread out and so it's mostly just the group that's in the area. It will be nice to get together, remember our friend, and maybe reconnect a little more.
In other bizarre revelations, I had the most surprising dream last night. It surprises me in a couple of ways: the first is that I actually remember some of it, and the second is the part that I do remember is so vivid that I have an inkling it could be another one of my psychic dreams. I really should get back in the habit of keeping a dream diary, which I did years and years ago when I realized I was having psychic dreams, but after a while I stopped remembering my dreams so I stopped writing. I don't know if I can really call them psychic dreams. I just know that once in a while, I have an overwhelming feeling of deja vu, and that when I see something in real life that I've seen before, it almost always feels like I had dreamed it sometime in the past. Most of the time, it's something so specific that there's no way I would have known what I was seeing in my dream would become real, because it was a place or a person I didn't know at the time.
As for the dream, I can't remember any details, save one. I remember looking down at myself and saying out loud that my pants were getting too tight. And then I told myself that of course my pants were getting tight, it was because I was pregnant.
Wait. What??
The really amazing thing is that I didn't remember this dream snippet until just a few moments ago, hours and hours after the dream occurred. I don't know who, I don't know when, and I don't know how, but if this turns out to be a psychic dream, I wanted to write this down somewhere before I forgot, and hopefully I'll remember to look back to prove that my mind knew first, and my body figured it out later.
"Don't let your worries second guess, we'll start over fresh, living a life with no regrets"
Sunday, February 12, 2017
Monday, October 10, 2016
Distractions
Hello friends. I'm sorry for the long hiatus. There have been a number of things going on in life, as they tend to do, that have distracted me from the blog. More to come.
I'm almost a month late but TIFF was, as always, two weeks of daily activity. This being my 11th festival as a volunteer (I can't even remember how many I've attended since high school), it's all starting to become a routine. Not to say that's a bad thing, but I think I've grown into the festival to the point where the glitz and the glam have become a bit...normal. And not as exciting as it once was. Still, the hope is to see some good films. Here's the 2016 list:
Bleed For This - This was the pick for the volunteer's pre-festival screening. A biopic about a champion boxer from the 1980s who survived a horrific car accident and spinal injury. He endured serious rehabilitation (he refused to have his neck fused because it would completely rule out the possibility of boxing again and chose to use the "halo" instead) to not only walk again but get into the ring again. Certainly not a film I would have chosen on my own, but I'm glad I got to see it. Miles Teller doesn't really look like Vinny Pazienza but I think he got his voice and mannerisms down. He also bulked up. A lot.
India in a Day - A complete crowdsourced film, the director and producers asked people in India via Google to film their lives on one day and upload their footage. An amazing look at everyday life in India that they're going to distribute on YouTube for free. The day after my screening, it was Canada in a Day, where Canadians were asked to do the same thing. I couldn't participate, but I'm intensely curious as to what they come up with.
Short Cuts Programme 3 - For the first time ever, I went to see some short films. My motivation was that one of my coworkers has a friend whose film was part of the programme. There were 8 short films, some of them extremely "artsy", but the film I was there to see, Second to None, was a stop motion animation about the second-oldest man in the world that was some of the darkest humour I've seen in a while. Try to find it if you can.
Weirdos - My Canadian content for the festival. A gorgeous black-and-white film about 2 teens in 1970s Nova Scotia on a road trip. The soundtrack was fantastic (classic Canadiana) and the acting was impressive. Having the spirit of Andy Warhol in the film was superfluous but so fun.
I, Daniel Blake - This one made me sniffle. The Palme D'Or winner at Cannes this year, it's about an older gentleman from Newcastle trying to navigate his way through the ridiculousness of the UK's welfare system. After having a heart attack, he's cut off from disability insurance due to an unforgiving assessment process. His only recourse is to seek unemployment benefits, but in order to get it he needs to prove that he's looking for work. Since his doctor and physiotherapist have not cleared him for work, he's stuck. Along the way he meets and befriends a single mother with 2 children also stuck in the system. Tragically funny at times and really sad to think that this is the reality for a lot of people.
Birth of the Dragon - My (sort-of) Chinese film of the festival. A biopic about Bruce Lee, which pretty much says it all. It was certainly not what I was expecting, and the acting and plot left a lot to be desired. But the kung fu sequences were seriously amazing.
La La Land - This year's People's Choice winner. I love musicals, and what's not to love about a modern musical set in LA and starring Ryan Gosling and Emma Stone that has the feel of a 40's song and dance movie? It was a surprising choice as the winner (a lot of us thought Lion would win) but it was a feel good film, even though it was kind of sad at the end.
Between these and my shifts, another busy fest, and yet different from all the other fests so far, in that I didn't see all of these films alone. Well, I did see most of them by myself, but I was able to bring someone along with me for the first time. Someone I met recently and have been able to get to know and have discovered that he doesn't quite share the same love of films or the fest as I do. But that's okay. It's still kind of early in the process. I'm sure you want to hear more but there isn't a lot to tell. Yet.
Stay tuned.
"I say goodbye to all my sorrow, and by tomorrow I'll be on my way"
I'm almost a month late but TIFF was, as always, two weeks of daily activity. This being my 11th festival as a volunteer (I can't even remember how many I've attended since high school), it's all starting to become a routine. Not to say that's a bad thing, but I think I've grown into the festival to the point where the glitz and the glam have become a bit...normal. And not as exciting as it once was. Still, the hope is to see some good films. Here's the 2016 list:
Bleed For This - This was the pick for the volunteer's pre-festival screening. A biopic about a champion boxer from the 1980s who survived a horrific car accident and spinal injury. He endured serious rehabilitation (he refused to have his neck fused because it would completely rule out the possibility of boxing again and chose to use the "halo" instead) to not only walk again but get into the ring again. Certainly not a film I would have chosen on my own, but I'm glad I got to see it. Miles Teller doesn't really look like Vinny Pazienza but I think he got his voice and mannerisms down. He also bulked up. A lot.
India in a Day - A complete crowdsourced film, the director and producers asked people in India via Google to film their lives on one day and upload their footage. An amazing look at everyday life in India that they're going to distribute on YouTube for free. The day after my screening, it was Canada in a Day, where Canadians were asked to do the same thing. I couldn't participate, but I'm intensely curious as to what they come up with.
Short Cuts Programme 3 - For the first time ever, I went to see some short films. My motivation was that one of my coworkers has a friend whose film was part of the programme. There were 8 short films, some of them extremely "artsy", but the film I was there to see, Second to None, was a stop motion animation about the second-oldest man in the world that was some of the darkest humour I've seen in a while. Try to find it if you can.
Weirdos - My Canadian content for the festival. A gorgeous black-and-white film about 2 teens in 1970s Nova Scotia on a road trip. The soundtrack was fantastic (classic Canadiana) and the acting was impressive. Having the spirit of Andy Warhol in the film was superfluous but so fun.
I, Daniel Blake - This one made me sniffle. The Palme D'Or winner at Cannes this year, it's about an older gentleman from Newcastle trying to navigate his way through the ridiculousness of the UK's welfare system. After having a heart attack, he's cut off from disability insurance due to an unforgiving assessment process. His only recourse is to seek unemployment benefits, but in order to get it he needs to prove that he's looking for work. Since his doctor and physiotherapist have not cleared him for work, he's stuck. Along the way he meets and befriends a single mother with 2 children also stuck in the system. Tragically funny at times and really sad to think that this is the reality for a lot of people.
Birth of the Dragon - My (sort-of) Chinese film of the festival. A biopic about Bruce Lee, which pretty much says it all. It was certainly not what I was expecting, and the acting and plot left a lot to be desired. But the kung fu sequences were seriously amazing.
La La Land - This year's People's Choice winner. I love musicals, and what's not to love about a modern musical set in LA and starring Ryan Gosling and Emma Stone that has the feel of a 40's song and dance movie? It was a surprising choice as the winner (a lot of us thought Lion would win) but it was a feel good film, even though it was kind of sad at the end.
Between these and my shifts, another busy fest, and yet different from all the other fests so far, in that I didn't see all of these films alone. Well, I did see most of them by myself, but I was able to bring someone along with me for the first time. Someone I met recently and have been able to get to know and have discovered that he doesn't quite share the same love of films or the fest as I do. But that's okay. It's still kind of early in the process. I'm sure you want to hear more but there isn't a lot to tell. Yet.
Stay tuned.
"I say goodbye to all my sorrow, and by tomorrow I'll be on my way"
Friday, July 01, 2016
Timing
Each and every time I go to New York, I make a point to do something I've never done before. This allows me to go back each year and not get bored. This year, due to certain circumstances, I stayed outside of Manhattan for the first time. Downtown Newark is not without its charms, I'm sure, but let's say I was ready to just dump my stuff in the room and figure out what I was going to do in the city.
Next new thing I was doing was taking the train from Penn Station to Penn Station. Yeah, I don't know why they couldn't have been more creative, but whatever. Those who know me know I'm a planner, so of course I checked the schedule before I headed out. And, as typical of me, I cut it kind of close. Like, really close. But not so close that 2 people couldn't ask me if this was the train to New York or not. I don't want to be rude or anything, but the sign is right there. Plus I always find it amusing when people ask me for directions in cities that are not my own.
Ritual #1 is to see a Broadway show. I had wanted to see "Waitress", mostly because I loved the movie and because I like the music of Sara Bareilles. Alas, it was sold out (well, it was sold out at the TKTS booth). What else? I fast forwarded through my memories of the Tony Awards, and I remembered "She Loves Me", which is based on the same story as "The Shop Around the Corner", which of course became "You've Got Mail". Zachary Levi as the lead male? Score! I never watched "Chuck" or even "Heroes Reborn" (I couldn't bear it, the first season of "Heroes" was so good and then it all fell apart), but he's a good actor and singer. Jane Krakowski is usually in it too but that day she was off. Whatever, it was good enough for me to buy a ticket. Upon closer inspection, I realized that it was playing at Studio 54. WHAT?!? I had no idea they turned it into a theatre. After a nice dinner at a Greek restaurant, I casually wandered over to the theatre. The first impression I had was...DARK. The walls were black and trimmed in a dingy gold. It was so creepy. I kept imagining the debauchery that took place there in the 70s. Don't...touch...anything...
The show was really really cute. Jane Krakowski's understudy seriously reminded me of Andrea Martin in a blond curly wig. The female lead had an amazing voice. All I know about her is that she was on a few episodes of "Supergirl" (I never watched that either). After the show, I strolled through Times Square and performed Ritual #2 - get a night photo of Times Square.
Some day I'm going to string together all of my annual Times Square photos to see how it changes over time.
I dawdled a little to much, and as a result I nearly missed the train back to Newark (it wasn't the last train, but I would have had to wait 45 minutes for the next one). It was full of young people, which in my advancing years tends to fill me with dread. But as we were disembarking one of the boys let me pass, which gave me some hope for the future.
Now I'm home, and in a twist of fate I read a news report that yesterday an 8-year-old boy nearly drowned in the pool on the same ship I was on. The ship, which had just left New Jersey, had to turn around and go back. The boy was medevac'd to the hospital, and the ship left again at 2 in the morning. Having just been on that boat, I had an incredibly hard time figuring out how the boy could have been left face down in that pool for 10 minutes before someone found him. But then, I realized that the only way this could have happened, and so close to the port, was that it occurred during the mandatory muster drill that everyone had to attend. We would go to our designated emergency gathering point and watch a video about how to put on the life preservers, etc. All of the guests had to be there, and it seemed like every member of the crew was also there, wearing green reflective vests and showing people where to go. This was only time the pool deck would have been empty. Except for one person, it seems. From what I read, the boy is still in critical condition. A grim way to start a vacation, and if my friends and I had left 2 weeks later, it would have been our vacation.
And the irony of someone drowning while people were watching a safety video was not lost on me.
"Hello darkness, my old friend, I've come to talk with you again"
Next new thing I was doing was taking the train from Penn Station to Penn Station. Yeah, I don't know why they couldn't have been more creative, but whatever. Those who know me know I'm a planner, so of course I checked the schedule before I headed out. And, as typical of me, I cut it kind of close. Like, really close. But not so close that 2 people couldn't ask me if this was the train to New York or not. I don't want to be rude or anything, but the sign is right there. Plus I always find it amusing when people ask me for directions in cities that are not my own.
Ritual #1 is to see a Broadway show. I had wanted to see "Waitress", mostly because I loved the movie and because I like the music of Sara Bareilles. Alas, it was sold out (well, it was sold out at the TKTS booth). What else? I fast forwarded through my memories of the Tony Awards, and I remembered "She Loves Me", which is based on the same story as "The Shop Around the Corner", which of course became "You've Got Mail". Zachary Levi as the lead male? Score! I never watched "Chuck" or even "Heroes Reborn" (I couldn't bear it, the first season of "Heroes" was so good and then it all fell apart), but he's a good actor and singer. Jane Krakowski is usually in it too but that day she was off. Whatever, it was good enough for me to buy a ticket. Upon closer inspection, I realized that it was playing at Studio 54. WHAT?!? I had no idea they turned it into a theatre. After a nice dinner at a Greek restaurant, I casually wandered over to the theatre. The first impression I had was...DARK. The walls were black and trimmed in a dingy gold. It was so creepy. I kept imagining the debauchery that took place there in the 70s. Don't...touch...anything...
The show was really really cute. Jane Krakowski's understudy seriously reminded me of Andrea Martin in a blond curly wig. The female lead had an amazing voice. All I know about her is that she was on a few episodes of "Supergirl" (I never watched that either). After the show, I strolled through Times Square and performed Ritual #2 - get a night photo of Times Square.
Some day I'm going to string together all of my annual Times Square photos to see how it changes over time.
I dawdled a little to much, and as a result I nearly missed the train back to Newark (it wasn't the last train, but I would have had to wait 45 minutes for the next one). It was full of young people, which in my advancing years tends to fill me with dread. But as we were disembarking one of the boys let me pass, which gave me some hope for the future.
Now I'm home, and in a twist of fate I read a news report that yesterday an 8-year-old boy nearly drowned in the pool on the same ship I was on. The ship, which had just left New Jersey, had to turn around and go back. The boy was medevac'd to the hospital, and the ship left again at 2 in the morning. Having just been on that boat, I had an incredibly hard time figuring out how the boy could have been left face down in that pool for 10 minutes before someone found him. But then, I realized that the only way this could have happened, and so close to the port, was that it occurred during the mandatory muster drill that everyone had to attend. We would go to our designated emergency gathering point and watch a video about how to put on the life preservers, etc. All of the guests had to be there, and it seemed like every member of the crew was also there, wearing green reflective vests and showing people where to go. This was only time the pool deck would have been empty. Except for one person, it seems. From what I read, the boy is still in critical condition. A grim way to start a vacation, and if my friends and I had left 2 weeks later, it would have been our vacation.
And the irony of someone drowning while people were watching a safety video was not lost on me.
"Hello darkness, my old friend, I've come to talk with you again"
Friday, June 24, 2016
Cruising Along
For anyone who's not familiar with cruising, I can imagine the top 3 impressions you could have about a Caribbean cruise: a lot of eating, a lot of drinking, and too much sun. Well, that's entirely possible, but it'd be mostly up to you. In reality, there's enough going on to keep you from doing any of those things.
Cruise ships have become small towns in the middle of the ocean. The one I'm on can hold around 4800 passengers. This doesn't count the crew, which can sometimes be as large as one for every two passengers. So what can a small town in the ocean offer? Here are a few things I've seen and done this week:
Even with all that, there were still a few things I didn't try, like the iFly skydiving simulator, or the Flowrider surfing simulator, or watch the Broadway show (I've seen We Will Rock You before), or eat at the Japanese restaurant. I was also pretty unsuccessful at bingo. But it was fun all the same.
So another cruise is coming to an end. One day to spend in NYC and it's back home again.
"I'm slowly drifting away, wave after wave, wave after wave"
Cruise ships have become small towns in the middle of the ocean. The one I'm on can hold around 4800 passengers. This doesn't count the crew, which can sometimes be as large as one for every two passengers. So what can a small town in the ocean offer? Here are a few things I've seen and done this week:
- Watched dolphins and flying fish swimming alongside the ship
- Rode a gondola 300 feet above sea level on a moving boat
- Saw a caberet show and a virtual concert
- Watched a robotic bartender make a cocktail
- Had a really good massage and facial at the spa
- Watched a larger man attempt the flying trapeze
- Saw part of Game 7 of the NBA finals on a giant screen on the pool deck
- Ate a lot
- Drank a little
- Got just enough sun
Even with all that, there were still a few things I didn't try, like the iFly skydiving simulator, or the Flowrider surfing simulator, or watch the Broadway show (I've seen We Will Rock You before), or eat at the Japanese restaurant. I was also pretty unsuccessful at bingo. But it was fun all the same.
So another cruise is coming to an end. One day to spend in NYC and it's back home again.
"I'm slowly drifting away, wave after wave, wave after wave"
Wednesday, June 22, 2016
Entering the Triangle
It's been a busy few days, stopping in Sint Maarten, Puerto Rico, and Haiti, and the end is nigh as we sail for two days back to New Jersey. But this is the part I've been waiting for. We are about to enter the Bermuda Triangle. Bucket list, check!
The Triangle is bounded by Bermuda, San Juan, and Miami. According to the position map, the ship should start passing through it tonight. I know I sound really morbid, but it just fascinates me. Plus I'm incredibly confident that everything will be fine. We're not on a plane or a small sailboat, after all!
Speaking of experiences, we had an amazing one yesterday at Wonderland, one of the specialty restaurants. The theme is pretty obvious, and the menu is unusual, as expected. The waiter customized our meal based on our preferences, and everything was delicious. Best part was when the waiter described one of the dishes as "frog's eyes". My friend started to panic a little, but he was just kidding, it was made of olives.
I'm pretty exhausted, so I'll do the recap tomorrow. You know, assuming I make it out of the Triangle and everything.
"I know that I'm running out of time, I want it all, and I'm wishing they'd stop trying to turn me off, I want it on"
The Triangle is bounded by Bermuda, San Juan, and Miami. According to the position map, the ship should start passing through it tonight. I know I sound really morbid, but it just fascinates me. Plus I'm incredibly confident that everything will be fine. We're not on a plane or a small sailboat, after all!
Speaking of experiences, we had an amazing one yesterday at Wonderland, one of the specialty restaurants. The theme is pretty obvious, and the menu is unusual, as expected. The waiter customized our meal based on our preferences, and everything was delicious. Best part was when the waiter described one of the dishes as "frog's eyes". My friend started to panic a little, but he was just kidding, it was made of olives.
I'm pretty exhausted, so I'll do the recap tomorrow. You know, assuming I make it out of the Triangle and everything.
"I know that I'm running out of time, I want it all, and I'm wishing they'd stop trying to turn me off, I want it on"
Saturday, June 18, 2016
Rockin' and Rollin'
Everything is vibrating. Especially the "window". I forgot about this part of cruising. Who knows why everything is shaky tonight. They said the waves were only going to be about 6 feet or so...
Today was Bermuda, our first port. I was on a shore excursion on my own this time. Looking out of the "window" in the morning revealed the most dreary scene imaginable. As feared, it was pouring rain when I disembarked. People were snapping up the plastic bag ponchos at $2 a pop. Luckily for me, the last thing I remembered to grab on my way out the door at home was my umbrella. A number of the beach and water related tours were cancelled, but my tour went ahead.
The tour was really good. Lots of interesting facts (did you know that Michael Douglas is half-Bermudian?), lots of amazing scenery. We were able to basically cover the length of the country, which at a grand total of 21 miles wasn't too strenuous. Not a lot of time after we got back to the pier to do any shopping, though. I guess I'll have to wait until St. Maarten.
Another day on the high seas tomorrow.
"Hold, hold on, hold on to me, 'cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady"
Today was Bermuda, our first port. I was on a shore excursion on my own this time. Looking out of the "window" in the morning revealed the most dreary scene imaginable. As feared, it was pouring rain when I disembarked. People were snapping up the plastic bag ponchos at $2 a pop. Luckily for me, the last thing I remembered to grab on my way out the door at home was my umbrella. A number of the beach and water related tours were cancelled, but my tour went ahead.
The tour was really good. Lots of interesting facts (did you know that Michael Douglas is half-Bermudian?), lots of amazing scenery. We were able to basically cover the length of the country, which at a grand total of 21 miles wasn't too strenuous. Not a lot of time after we got back to the pier to do any shopping, though. I guess I'll have to wait until St. Maarten.
Another day on the high seas tomorrow.
"Hold, hold on, hold on to me, 'cause I'm a little unsteady, a little unsteady"
Thursday, June 16, 2016
A Virtual Window
The gentle swaying. How I've missed it.
I can't say where I am at the moment, only because I don't know. I guess the only location I can give is "the Atlantic Ocean". I'm on the Anthem of the Seas, one of the newest monstrosities released into the wild by Royal Caribbean. It isn't the biggest one (read: this one doesn't have a Central Park running through its midsection), but it's still big enough that I feel confident I'll be able to work off the calories just walking from the restaurant back to my room.
This is my 4th cruise, and I have to say this is a pretty nice ship. Everything is shiny and state of the art. They have a bar tended by robots! They have a skydiving simulator on the top deck! They have bumper cars and a food truck! They have wifi! But the accommodations have definitely improved. The room I have is a standard interior room, with the one difference that it has a virtual balcony. They mounted a huge TV screen on the wall that shows a real time image of the outside of the ship. So when we were pulling out of the pier in New Jersey, I was able to watch us pass by the Statue of Liberty without having to run up to the top deck.
The age in which we live.
And so now we're chugging our way southeast. A full day of sailing tomorrow, which can only mean one thing. Time for some bingo.
"I got this feeling inside my bones, it goes electric, wavy when i turn it on"
Monday, May 02, 2016
Changing State
You know I'm a nerd. If you didn't, you'll know it now.
Quickie science note: it takes a lot of energy to change water from liquid to vapour. I won't get into it, but just trust me, it's a lot. I've discovered that I behave the same way as water.
I am totally fine being in one state. I could probably maintain it indefinitely. If there's something I have to do, usually something I don't necessarily want to do, it takes a lot of energy to get me to the point where I start to do it. And then, once I've started, it kind of keeps going on its own.
I've been thinking about this fact for a few months now. I'm not sure where the energy came from, but it got me onto the computer and writing these words. And now it's just flowing out.
In sort of related-unrelated news, my high school's 50th anniversary is coming up next week. Not being on social media has saved me from the likely constant updating of old photos on Facebook and nostalgic tweets. I did venture onto the page a couple of times. The memories came flooding back like a tidal wave. I looked at our photos and thought, holy crap, we were children. At the same time, I haven't really physically changed too much, apart from hairstyles and clothes. So really, have I changed states?
I do hope so.
"Once I was 7 years old, my mama told me 'Go make yourself some friends or you'll be lonely'"
Quickie science note: it takes a lot of energy to change water from liquid to vapour. I won't get into it, but just trust me, it's a lot. I've discovered that I behave the same way as water.
I am totally fine being in one state. I could probably maintain it indefinitely. If there's something I have to do, usually something I don't necessarily want to do, it takes a lot of energy to get me to the point where I start to do it. And then, once I've started, it kind of keeps going on its own.
I've been thinking about this fact for a few months now. I'm not sure where the energy came from, but it got me onto the computer and writing these words. And now it's just flowing out.
In sort of related-unrelated news, my high school's 50th anniversary is coming up next week. Not being on social media has saved me from the likely constant updating of old photos on Facebook and nostalgic tweets. I did venture onto the page a couple of times. The memories came flooding back like a tidal wave. I looked at our photos and thought, holy crap, we were children. At the same time, I haven't really physically changed too much, apart from hairstyles and clothes. So really, have I changed states?
I do hope so.
"Once I was 7 years old, my mama told me 'Go make yourself some friends or you'll be lonely'"
Sunday, January 17, 2016
The Disease
It's been a sad start to the year, hasn't it? A lot of amazing people have passed away from the same disease: cancer. I still remember my first experience with David Bowie. Funnily enough, it was from the movie "Labyrinth". I remember watching that movie over and over, and not finding out until later on that he was a singer before he was an actor. That movie kind of freaked me out a little too.
Alan Rickman was just about the most amazing movie villain ever, in my opinion. But I really did like him best as a romantic lead. This weekend I watched "Sense and Sensibility" at least 4 times (they were repeating it on TV a lot).
Then, this past week, I found out something else. A good friend of mine from school is battling breast cancer. This hit me in a way I did not expect. I've known older family members, my parents' friends and my friends' parents who have fought the disease, some more successfully than others. Still, it shocks me a little when it's someone around my age. Not that it's less tragic for an older person (or a younger person, for that matter). Maybe it's just all of the cases of death by cancer that I've been hearing about that made this case more significant to me.
As far as I know, she's doing okay. I have yet to see her but it's always a slightly awkward situation, where I don't want to disturb but still want to support. No matter, I'll find a way. Because what's really important, anyway? Well, this is where I find out.
"When the nurses they came, said "It's come back again", I wasn't expecting that"
Alan Rickman was just about the most amazing movie villain ever, in my opinion. But I really did like him best as a romantic lead. This weekend I watched "Sense and Sensibility" at least 4 times (they were repeating it on TV a lot).
Then, this past week, I found out something else. A good friend of mine from school is battling breast cancer. This hit me in a way I did not expect. I've known older family members, my parents' friends and my friends' parents who have fought the disease, some more successfully than others. Still, it shocks me a little when it's someone around my age. Not that it's less tragic for an older person (or a younger person, for that matter). Maybe it's just all of the cases of death by cancer that I've been hearing about that made this case more significant to me.
As far as I know, she's doing okay. I have yet to see her but it's always a slightly awkward situation, where I don't want to disturb but still want to support. No matter, I'll find a way. Because what's really important, anyway? Well, this is where I find out.
"When the nurses they came, said "It's come back again", I wasn't expecting that"
Saturday, December 05, 2015
Why I (Heart) New York
Oh New York, how many years have we known each other? And yet each time we meet, it's different. But still comfortably familiar! Like a favourite pair of shoes.
(Ooh, shoes. I'll talk about that later)
This year, since I had spent a considerable amount at the outset with my great Australian adventure, I decided to postpone my annual NY trip to November. Not only to partake in some Black Friday deals (or so I thought, back in June), but also because I had never been in the city during the holiday season. And hey, I had never seen the Macy's Thanksgiving parade, not even on TV. So, in what I thought was a stroke of genius and insanity, I paid a small fortune to book a hotel room with a guaranteed view of the parade route. No way was I going to freeze my butt off and huddle with the masses. Plus I could catch all of the good performances on TV at the same time! Yup, I had considered everything...
Something I did not consider: the marching bands rehearse on the street at 2:30 in the morning. I jolted awake in the dark, thinking, "Oh my God, something is exploding!" Given recent events, it wasn't an unreasonable thought. But then, it seemed to be exploding rhythmically. Then I sank back down in the pillows, realizing what was happening. I took a quick look out the window. Sure enough, there were girls twirling flags and the drummers were going all out. I pillow-smothered myself until I was exhausted enough to fall asleep, so I'm not sure exactly how long they were out there rehearsing.
People to whom I've told already told this story have remarked, "Why couldn't they find somewhere else to rehearse?" My answer is three-fold:
1. I would guess that most, if not all, of the marching bands are from everywhere else in the US, and not from New York. So really, where could they go to rehearse?
(Ooh, shoes. I'll talk about that later)
This year, since I had spent a considerable amount at the outset with my great Australian adventure, I decided to postpone my annual NY trip to November. Not only to partake in some Black Friday deals (or so I thought, back in June), but also because I had never been in the city during the holiday season. And hey, I had never seen the Macy's Thanksgiving parade, not even on TV. So, in what I thought was a stroke of genius and insanity, I paid a small fortune to book a hotel room with a guaranteed view of the parade route. No way was I going to freeze my butt off and huddle with the masses. Plus I could catch all of the good performances on TV at the same time! Yup, I had considered everything...
Something I did not consider: the marching bands rehearse on the street at 2:30 in the morning. I jolted awake in the dark, thinking, "Oh my God, something is exploding!" Given recent events, it wasn't an unreasonable thought. But then, it seemed to be exploding rhythmically. Then I sank back down in the pillows, realizing what was happening. I took a quick look out the window. Sure enough, there were girls twirling flags and the drummers were going all out. I pillow-smothered myself until I was exhausted enough to fall asleep, so I'm not sure exactly how long they were out there rehearsing.
People to whom I've told already told this story have remarked, "Why couldn't they find somewhere else to rehearse?" My answer is three-fold:
1. I would guess that most, if not all, of the marching bands are from everywhere else in the US, and not from New York. So really, where could they go to rehearse?
2. If you've ever seen the parade, you'd know that each band consists of dozens, if not hundreds of kids. Where would you find a place big enough?
3. The streets of the parade route were already closed by Wednesday night, so why not rehearse in a huge, free-of-charge, traffic-free zone, where you're going to be marching down in the morning anyway?
And for that matter, I would assume that they would need to be at the top of the parade route by, I don't know, 6 or 7 in the morning, to be lined up for the 9 o'clock start, right? So, by rehearsing at 2 in the morning, are they going to get any sleep before the parade, or were they already awake for the day? And this year it was mercifully warm and dry (actually, abnormally so). I couldn't imagine if it was freezing cold or pouring rain or blinding snow. So, okay. I felt a little bad for them. But those streets of New York echo like crazy...
Anyway, I woke at 8:30, made some hotel room coffee, turned on the TV and settled in. The top of the route was at 77th and Central Park West. Since I was at 35th and 6th (diagonally across the street from Macy's), it was going to take a while for anything to show up outside my window. Sure enough, around 45 minutes later, I heard some cheering from the crowd down on the street (my room had a window that could open, but only a crack). I took a look, and was puzzled. The marching band I had seen on TV at the start of the parade was running full speed down the street, all out of formation. I was beginning to think that this was the strangest parade I'd ever seen, when I realized something. This was being broadcast live, and there was a spot set up on the street in front of Macy's where the performances were taking place. These kids were probably a little slow making their way along the 2.5 mile route, so they had to run in order to be at the right place and keep to the schedule. As the band passed, I saw a poor soul, carrying a tuba, trailing the rest of the group and obviously trying really hard to keep up. But, minutes later, the band was on TV, lined up and playing their hearts out. I forgot to look for the tuba though.
The rest of the parade was pretty typical. The balloons were terribly impressive, although when they mentioned how much helium they needed to inflate them, I cringed a little. The world is running out of helium.
But still, when you need this many people to hold Hello Kitty down...
Moving on. I was less prepared than I normally am on vacations. The night before, after I bought some breakfast supplies from a nearby grocery/convenience store, I casually Googled "restaurants in New York that are open on Thanksgiving". I found a site that had a list of restaurants and their set menus. I cross referenced, checked online reviews, and found David Burke fabrick, which stood out because they had turducken on the menu. Then I saw that the dessert was "pie-cake-en", which was described as a pumpkin pie-pecan pie-apple upside-down cake in one gigantic slice. Sold! Then I considered my strategy. If Best Buy was going to be open at 5:00pm, and Macy's was going to be open at 6:00pm (remember, this is on Thanksgiving Day), then it would make sense to make a reservation at 4:00pm, fuel up, and then hit the shops and hope for the best.
This is where I had my best New York experience to date, and why I (Heart)NY. I got to the restaurant, was seated, and ordered. It was actually quite full of people. The soup I had ordered arrived, and I had just tasted it when I felt a tap on my left shoulder. There were two ladies sitting at the next table. The one who tapped me said, "Excuse me, but are you eating by yourself?" I replied that I was. Then she said, "Do you want to join us?" I was almost shocked into speechlessness, but after confirming that they were sure, I slid my table over to the left and joined Kristen (sp?) and Kate ("it's a lot of K's!"). We chatted amiably for the whole meal, and laughing quite a bit I might add. It was noted by all parties that this really was a lucky call (I could have been a weirdo, they could have been weirdos, etc.). But they were the nicest people, and they thought I was too. They shared their bottle of rosé with me and ordered a second bottle (it turns out, in NY, if you don't finish your bottle of wine at a restaurant, you can take it with you! This is a game-changer!). I didn't order the pie-cake-en, but Kate wanted to try the chocolate handbag, and got 3 spoons to share. Unfortunately, it turned out that there was a layer of coconut in it that nobody was aware of, and since none of us were fans of coconut, we ended up leaving it on the plate. As a final touch to a great experience, the waiter came to us at the end and gave us each a turkey sandwich to take home ("We wanted to make sure you'd still have leftovers!"). Seriously, best restaurant ever. We said our good-byes, and I stepped out onto the street and started my shopping odyssey.
Best Buy wasn't a total mess. There was a half-hour line-up on the street, but they kept it civilized with a wristband policy: for example, for TVs, they'd ask what one you wanted and if it was available they'd wristband you on the street so all you'd have to do inside the store was pay. Then they had Geek Squad trucks lined up on the street filled with TVs, marked with different coloured balloons. You'd go to your designated balloon, show your receipt, then they'd hand you your TV and off you'd go. I just bought a couple of things and left for Macy's.
I needed to replace my favourite pair of Italian black leather boots that I'd been wearing for decades. As it turned out, there was an extra 25% off boots. I also opened a Macy's card (there was a bit of drama for that, since I didn't realize I needed my social insurance number, but it turned out well in the end), so I got an additional 20% off. I wandered around the shoe department for a while, and was making a second round when, on top of a pile of Nine West boxes, there was one box that was different. It contained a pair of black leather Vince Camuto boots. They were my size. Cautiously optimistic, I took them over to the side and tried them on. They fit great. And they were additionally on sale. So, when the shopping gods smile and hand you a gift, you say thank you and run! I got exactly what I was looking for. Which was great, until I came back the next day and found a pair of Coach boots, also additionally on sale, that were really pretty and mostly different (they were grey suede!), so I ended up buying them too. Hey, do I need to repeat myself about the shopping gods?
The rest of the NY trip was pretty standard. As usual, I saw a Broadway show (Fun Home), I took my night photo of Times Square at the same spot as always, and I made sure I tried a touristy thing that I hadn't done before (I went up the Empire State Building). I also had some more great foodie experiences, like bibimbap at Danji (a restaurant highly recommended by friends), and ramen at Ippudo (a restaurant highly recommended by the internet).
The best part, there were no incidents. Why? Because there were cops EVERYWHERE. Not just the cops that were taking care of the parade, but even walking down 5th Avenue on Friday night, there was one spot where a pen had been constructed out of barricade fences, and officers wearing helmets and body armour that said "Counterterrorism Unit" on the back, as well as carrying automatic machine guns, were standing inside, keeping an eye on the crowds. Some people might be freaked out by that. I felt mostly reassured...and maybe a little sad.
Oh New York, until we meet again...take care.
"Hello, it's me, I was wondering if after all these years you'd like to meet"
Moving on. I was less prepared than I normally am on vacations. The night before, after I bought some breakfast supplies from a nearby grocery/convenience store, I casually Googled "restaurants in New York that are open on Thanksgiving". I found a site that had a list of restaurants and their set menus. I cross referenced, checked online reviews, and found David Burke fabrick, which stood out because they had turducken on the menu. Then I saw that the dessert was "pie-cake-en", which was described as a pumpkin pie-pecan pie-apple upside-down cake in one gigantic slice. Sold! Then I considered my strategy. If Best Buy was going to be open at 5:00pm, and Macy's was going to be open at 6:00pm (remember, this is on Thanksgiving Day), then it would make sense to make a reservation at 4:00pm, fuel up, and then hit the shops and hope for the best.
This is where I had my best New York experience to date, and why I (Heart)
Best Buy wasn't a total mess. There was a half-hour line-up on the street, but they kept it civilized with a wristband policy: for example, for TVs, they'd ask what one you wanted and if it was available they'd wristband you on the street so all you'd have to do inside the store was pay. Then they had Geek Squad trucks lined up on the street filled with TVs, marked with different coloured balloons. You'd go to your designated balloon, show your receipt, then they'd hand you your TV and off you'd go. I just bought a couple of things and left for Macy's.
I needed to replace my favourite pair of Italian black leather boots that I'd been wearing for decades. As it turned out, there was an extra 25% off boots. I also opened a Macy's card (there was a bit of drama for that, since I didn't realize I needed my social insurance number, but it turned out well in the end), so I got an additional 20% off. I wandered around the shoe department for a while, and was making a second round when, on top of a pile of Nine West boxes, there was one box that was different. It contained a pair of black leather Vince Camuto boots. They were my size. Cautiously optimistic, I took them over to the side and tried them on. They fit great. And they were additionally on sale. So, when the shopping gods smile and hand you a gift, you say thank you and run! I got exactly what I was looking for. Which was great, until I came back the next day and found a pair of Coach boots, also additionally on sale, that were really pretty and mostly different (they were grey suede!), so I ended up buying them too. Hey, do I need to repeat myself about the shopping gods?
The rest of the NY trip was pretty standard. As usual, I saw a Broadway show (Fun Home), I took my night photo of Times Square at the same spot as always, and I made sure I tried a touristy thing that I hadn't done before (I went up the Empire State Building). I also had some more great foodie experiences, like bibimbap at Danji (a restaurant highly recommended by friends), and ramen at Ippudo (a restaurant highly recommended by the internet).
The best part, there were no incidents. Why? Because there were cops EVERYWHERE. Not just the cops that were taking care of the parade, but even walking down 5th Avenue on Friday night, there was one spot where a pen had been constructed out of barricade fences, and officers wearing helmets and body armour that said "Counterterrorism Unit" on the back, as well as carrying automatic machine guns, were standing inside, keeping an eye on the crowds. Some people might be freaked out by that. I felt mostly reassured...and maybe a little sad.
Oh New York, until we meet again...take care.
"Hello, it's me, I was wondering if after all these years you'd like to meet"
Sunday, September 27, 2015
TIFF Ten
It took me a while to realize that this year marked the tenth year I'd been volunteering at the film festival. Which explains why they're starting to kind of meld together in my memory...
Hence, the necessity of blogging.
It also explains why each year it's taking a bit longer to recover from the experience. It was another round of daily excursions downtown, finding the parking spots, navigating around the street closures, and occasionally controlling the minor road rage (why do people not understand that you can't turn left in that lane??).
The films were definitely more varied than in recent years. Of course, I took in the typical big budget Hollywood fare starring well-known actors and adapted from novels (The Martian, The Danish Girl, Brooklyn), but the rest was a bit more off-beat and weirder (The Lobster, Anomalisa, The Lady in the Van), and as usual a few foreign language ones thrown in (The Whispering Star, A Tale of Three Cities). In the interest of brevity, this time I'm going to comment on the ones that impacted me:
Jason Reitman's Live Read
When they announced that they were going to be reading "Princess Bride", I knew I just had to be there for it. It's not like it's the most exciting concept, a bunch of actors sitting on a stage, reading a script with someone narrating the directions, but it was going to be an experience, I was sure of it. The first challenge was the ticket. My vouchers were only good for regular screenings or for rushing premium screenings, which of course was what the reading was. Dedicated fest goers would be lining up for hours. Second challenge was timing. I had a volunteer shift right before the reading, luckily at the same theatre, but it meant that I couldn't be one of those people sitting in the line for hours. Obviously, it would be great if I could have someone else sitting in the line for me, saving me a spot. But my friend, who wanted to see it with me, was also working and wouldn't be able to get to the theatre any earlier than me. So my odds were looking pretty slim. But if all those years of going to the festival has taught me anything, it's to never give up on the rush line (I've only done that once, and it was only because the line was 3 blocks long by the time I got there). As it turned out, we had the better spot in the line, as we could see the actors entering through the back door. We were the first to see Patrick Stewart, his baseball-capped head down as he hurried inside. We saw Cary Elwes, and speculated on his role. As the line started to move, we also saw a dark haired woman run into the building. None of us could identify her. I thought she resembled Sarah Silverman, but it definitely wasn't her.
By some miracle, after a couple of hours waiting in the rain, inching forward when they started selling to the rush line, my friend and I both made it in. Beyond that miracle, we were somehow able to get 2 seats together. A sign that we were meant to be there. Since we got in late we missed the introductions. Amazingly, we saw that Cary Elwes was reprising his role as Westley. We also saw the dark haired woman, sitting in the seat marked "Inigo Montoya", which we all knew was for Gael Garcia Bernal, but thanks to Twitter we had already learned that his flight was late. Who was this mystery woman? Whoever she was, she was doing a great job, to the point where I thought she must be Hispanic.
Halfway through the performance, Jason was about to read a stage direction when he stopped and said, "Isn't my sister doing a great job?" And so the mystery was solved, the woman was Catherine Reitman. Because, when you're in a jam, who else are you going to call to fill in at the last minute other than your family? As we applauded her, she graciously gave up her seat and Gael came in, sat down, and picked it up immediately (the stage direction ironically said that Inigo was catching his breath).
I've seen the film countless times, and while there was really nothing different from the film, the little things made it the most unique experience. You had Cary Elwes taking a photo of Patrick Stewart as he said his first line. You had Georges Laraque, a professional hockey player who sounds EXACTLY like Andre the Giant, giving other seasoned actors a hand ("That's not my line"). You had Gage Munroe, the young Canadian actor playing the Grandson, being the one that sounded the least like he was reading a script. You had Rachel McAdams, in my opinion playing Valerie a bit better than she was playing Buttercup. All of these little things added up to a really fun night.
Anomalisa
If I were to recommend a film from the festival, this is the one. That is, if you appreciate the crazy stylings of Charlie Kaufman ("Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind" still gets me every time). An existential stop-motion film that, I have to admit, took me a minute or two to understand what was going on. But then it made sense. Well, as much sense as his films can make. All of the moving parts of this film were impressive: it's stop-motion animation (which always impresses me, knowing how painstaking the process is), it was originally an audio play, there are only 3 actors providing the voices (part of what confused me, and then made total sense), and it was crowd funded by a Kickstarter campaign. It's scheduled for release in December.
The Lobster
Imagine living in a world where everyone had to be paired up (heterosexually or otherwise) by something in common (a personality trait or a physical attribute), but if you aren't able to find a mate in 45 days, you are turned into the animal of your choice and released into the wild. The main character, David, played by Colin Farrell, has lost his wife (it's a bit ambiguous as to how), and is immediately taken to the hotel where single men and women go to find their mate. It's a completely controlled environment. Inhabitants can prolong their stay by going out on the hunt for "loners", using tranquilizer darts to shoot people living in the woods who have chosen not to follow the rules of society. Each loner captured extends the stay by one day. Eventually, David realizes that he doesn't want to be part of the system anymore and escapes into the woods to join the loners. But is life outside of the system any better? It's a really interesting (and kind of depressing) analysis of society and human nature, and it's one of the most original ideas for a film I've seen in a while. But it's got one of those ambiguous endings that I was frustrated by. I'm not sure if it's going to be released in theatres.
The Whispering Star
By far the most artistic film I've seen, almost ever. And it actually made sense, even when it became incredibly weird. Shot in black and white, with almost zero soundtrack or background noise, and with everyone speaking in whispered tones, the story is about a future where humans have spread out in the galaxy thanks to teleportation, but they still have the need to send packages to each other by courier. A female robot travels alone through space in a ship that looks like a house, delivering strange packages. On the way, she tries to learn what she can about humanity. What fascinated me the most wasn't the story, but where it was made. All of the exterior shots (i.e., the planets she visited) were filmed around the Fukushima Nuclear Power Plant. The towns near the plant had been completely evacuated after the accident, which made some of the scenes extremely eerie. During the Q&A session, someone asked if the actress (who's also the director's wife) was ever nervous during the shoot. She said they had geiger counters with them to ensure they weren't exposed to dangerous levels of radiation. Seriously, hard core.
I could go on about the other films, but there's not much you can't learn from online synopses. I liked all of them. Hopefully that helps a little.
Go watch a movie.
"Even if we can't find heaven, I'd walk through hell with you"
Hence, the necessity of blogging.
It also explains why each year it's taking a bit longer to recover from the experience. It was another round of daily excursions downtown, finding the parking spots, navigating around the street closures, and occasionally controlling the minor road rage (why do people not understand that you can't turn left in that lane??).
The films were definitely more varied than in recent years. Of course, I took in the typical big budget Hollywood fare starring well-known actors and adapted from novels (The Martian, The Danish Girl, Brooklyn), but the rest was a bit more off-beat and weirder (The Lobster, Anomalisa, The Lady in the Van), and as usual a few foreign language ones thrown in (The Whispering Star, A Tale of Three Cities). In the interest of brevity, this time I'm going to comment on the ones that impacted me:
Jason Reitman's Live Read
When they announced that they were going to be reading "Princess Bride", I knew I just had to be there for it. It's not like it's the most exciting concept, a bunch of actors sitting on a stage, reading a script with someone narrating the directions, but it was going to be an experience, I was sure of it. The first challenge was the ticket. My vouchers were only good for regular screenings or for rushing premium screenings, which of course was what the reading was. Dedicated fest goers would be lining up for hours. Second challenge was timing. I had a volunteer shift right before the reading, luckily at the same theatre, but it meant that I couldn't be one of those people sitting in the line for hours. Obviously, it would be great if I could have someone else sitting in the line for me, saving me a spot. But my friend, who wanted to see it with me, was also working and wouldn't be able to get to the theatre any earlier than me. So my odds were looking pretty slim. But if all those years of going to the festival has taught me anything, it's to never give up on the rush line (I've only done that once, and it was only because the line was 3 blocks long by the time I got there). As it turned out, we had the better spot in the line, as we could see the actors entering through the back door. We were the first to see Patrick Stewart, his baseball-capped head down as he hurried inside. We saw Cary Elwes, and speculated on his role. As the line started to move, we also saw a dark haired woman run into the building. None of us could identify her. I thought she resembled Sarah Silverman, but it definitely wasn't her.
By some miracle, after a couple of hours waiting in the rain, inching forward when they started selling to the rush line, my friend and I both made it in. Beyond that miracle, we were somehow able to get 2 seats together. A sign that we were meant to be there. Since we got in late we missed the introductions. Amazingly, we saw that Cary Elwes was reprising his role as Westley. We also saw the dark haired woman, sitting in the seat marked "Inigo Montoya", which we all knew was for Gael Garcia Bernal, but thanks to Twitter we had already learned that his flight was late. Who was this mystery woman? Whoever she was, she was doing a great job, to the point where I thought she must be Hispanic.
Halfway through the performance, Jason was about to read a stage direction when he stopped and said, "Isn't my sister doing a great job?" And so the mystery was solved, the woman was Catherine Reitman. Because, when you're in a jam, who else are you going to call to fill in at the last minute other than your family? As we applauded her, she graciously gave up her seat and Gael came in, sat down, and picked it up immediately (the stage direction ironically said that Inigo was catching his breath).
I've seen the film countless times, and while there was really nothing different from the film, the little things made it the most unique experience. You had Cary Elwes taking a photo of Patrick Stewart as he said his first line. You had Georges Laraque, a professional hockey player who sounds EXACTLY like Andre the Giant, giving other seasoned actors a hand ("That's not my line"). You had Gage Munroe, the young Canadian actor playing the Grandson, being the one that sounded the least like he was reading a script. You had Rachel McAdams, in my opinion playing Valerie a bit better than she was playing Buttercup. All of these little things added up to a really fun night.
Anomalisa
If I were to recommend a film from the festival, this is the one. That is, if you appreciate the crazy stylings of Charlie Kaufman ("Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind" still gets me every time). An existential stop-motion film that, I have to admit, took me a minute or two to understand what was going on. But then it made sense. Well, as much sense as his films can make. All of the moving parts of this film were impressive: it's stop-motion animation (which always impresses me, knowing how painstaking the process is), it was originally an audio play, there are only 3 actors providing the voices (part of what confused me, and then made total sense), and it was crowd funded by a Kickstarter campaign. It's scheduled for release in December.
The Lobster
Imagine living in a world where everyone had to be paired up (heterosexually or otherwise) by something in common (a personality trait or a physical attribute), but if you aren't able to find a mate in 45 days, you are turned into the animal of your choice and released into the wild. The main character, David, played by Colin Farrell, has lost his wife (it's a bit ambiguous as to how), and is immediately taken to the hotel where single men and women go to find their mate. It's a completely controlled environment. Inhabitants can prolong their stay by going out on the hunt for "loners", using tranquilizer darts to shoot people living in the woods who have chosen not to follow the rules of society. Each loner captured extends the stay by one day. Eventually, David realizes that he doesn't want to be part of the system anymore and escapes into the woods to join the loners. But is life outside of the system any better? It's a really interesting (and kind of depressing) analysis of society and human nature, and it's one of the most original ideas for a film I've seen in a while. But it's got one of those ambiguous endings that I was frustrated by. I'm not sure if it's going to be released in theatres.
The Whispering Star
By far the most artistic film I've seen, almost ever. And it actually made sense, even when it became incredibly weird. Shot in black and white, with almost zero soundtrack or background noise, and with everyone speaking in whispered tones, the story is about a future where humans have spread out in the galaxy thanks to teleportation, but they still have the need to send packages to each other by courier. A female robot travels alone through space in a ship that looks like a house, delivering strange packages. On the way, she tries to learn what she can about humanity. What fascinated me the most wasn't the story, but where it was made. All of the exterior shots (i.e., the planets she visited) were filmed around the Fukushima Nuclear Power Plant. The towns near the plant had been completely evacuated after the accident, which made some of the scenes extremely eerie. During the Q&A session, someone asked if the actress (who's also the director's wife) was ever nervous during the shoot. She said they had geiger counters with them to ensure they weren't exposed to dangerous levels of radiation. Seriously, hard core.
I could go on about the other films, but there's not much you can't learn from online synopses. I liked all of them. Hopefully that helps a little.
Go watch a movie.
"Even if we can't find heaven, I'd walk through hell with you"
Sunday, March 08, 2015
Neverending Sunday
It's amazing the things that have happened to me in recent years when it comes to my attempts to travel by plane:
- Schedules have been updated without my knowledge, resulting in a missed flight
- General weather inconveniences (usually involving snow) would cause nuisance delays
- Planes have skidded off runways (not mine, thankfully), leading to completely closed airports and a night sleeping on a bench in a friend's hotel room
On the other hand, it could be said that since I travel a fair bit more than the average person, it stands to reason that the odds of something happening to me whilst in transit are higher than most.
The Hong Kong-Australia-New Zealand trip contained the most number of flights I've ever taken in a single vacation (which, incidentally, came to a total of seven legs). For the first six, nothing of significance happened. My last day in Hong Kong was a Saturday. I leisurely woke up in my brother's living room, checked the weather, then decided to check on my flight using the airline's app. My flight was scheduled for 4:30pm, so I didn't expect there to be much information. When the app first opened, it said it was on time. Within a few seconds, the graphic changed to "Delayed". What I saw underneath the graphic made me call wildly for my brother to get on the internet and confirm what I was seeing.
My flight was now scheduled for 2:00am. Sunday morning.
I had to look at that information a number of times before I could believe it. I checked the airline website, I checked the airport website, and my brother checked the internet at large. Despite some discrepancies of an hour or so regarding the departure time, they were all saying that my flight was delayed for roughly 10 hours.
This was disheartening news at first. As much fun as I'd had with my brother, I was ready to go home. I'm sure he was ready to be rid of me too, as we had spent 3 solid weeks straight together. However, unlike the other times I've been stranded somewhere, I didn't have to worry about where I would stay, what I would do, or how much extra I'd have to spend. All of that was taken care of. So in this case, I was pretty lucky. So I took it all in stride. I had a good nap in the afternoon while my brother went to his ultimate frisbee practice. I got an extra dinner at a Thai restaurant that my brother had never tried before. I wasn't able to do any decent airport shopping since the stores closed around 11:00, but that was probably for the best.
While waiting at the airport, I found an article that revealed the reason for the delay. As you know, flights are based on the same plane flying between two cities. The plane I was supposed to take was coming from Toronto the day before. That plane took off on Friday at 10:00am and would have arrived in Hong Kong on Saturday at 2:00pm, which then would have been available for my flight at 4:30. After takeoff, the plane had to turn around and go back to Toronto. Why? The toilets on the plane were backed up. For the safety of the passengers, they had to turn around. Back on the ground, the either fixed the problem or got another plane (hopefully the latter!). That flight didn't leave Toronto until 8:00pm on Friday night, which meant they wouldn't arrive in HK until 12:00am Sunday. So, again, in the big picture, it could have been a lot worse for me. I could have been on a plane with backed up toilets. I'm trying not to think about that too much.
Another piece of good news was that I ended up with an empty seat between me and the lady sitting in the aisle seat. We wasted no time in claiming our halves of the free seat. We left mostly on time, and the flight was uneventful. After 14 hours of flying, I finally landed at home.
It was around 4:00am. Sunday morning.
It was around 4:00am. Sunday morning.
I did my best to get myself out of the airport as quickly as possible. Alas, I was unable to get the kangaroo, emu and crocodile jerky past customs, but I didn't really have the strength of mind to argue at that point. My other brother came to pick me up. We stopped for a greasy fast food breakfast, then he drove me home. I walked into my dark condo, my internal clock utterly confused. A short while later, the sun started to rise. I was wide awake, and about to start my Sunday again.
"I walked around the world a hundred times and realized, that freight trains and paper planes are just like you and me"
"I walked around the world a hundred times and realized, that freight trains and paper planes are just like you and me"
Friday, March 06, 2015
My Own Dear Photograph
It took a few years and a couple of tries, but I finally got my own Dear Photograph.
Dear Photograph is a website where you submit a photo of a photo from the past in the present. In other words, you go back to where a photo was taken years ago, hold the photo up so it matches the background, and take a photo of it. There's usually a story attached to the photo, typically in the form of a letter addressed to the old photograph. Some of the stories are incredibly awesome. Some are sad (there are a few that people have taken in New York where the Twin Towers used to be).
For me, my ultimate Dear Photograph was to go back to Ocean Park in Hong Kong and take a photo in the same spot where my dad took a photo of me and my brother in front of the mountain with the seahorse logo cut into the landscape. I had tried to do it 2 years ago during my last visit, but I didn't get the chance. As I was planning this trip, I realized the first trip happened just over 30 years ago. So, this time, I was determined to get the photo.
I don't remember very much about that visit to Ocean Park (nor of Tokyo Disney World, which we also visited during the same trip). I was pretty sure it was going to have changed a substantial amount. I mean, Hong Kong changes every 30 days, let alone 30 years. As I entered the park, I could see the seahorse on the mountain right away. So my first order of business was to get to the spot and take the photo. I manoeuvred myself into position, and took the shot:
For context, this is what the spot looks like today:
I don't know if you can tell, but I'm not standing as far away from the mountain as I was during that first photo. But I was standing as far back as I could. After some more investigating, I figured out that the spot where my dad had taken the photo was likely outside of the park, which in the present day has been turned into the tour bus parking lot. So, I guess I technically didn't have to spend the 345HKD to get the photo. But I made the most of it anyway.
It's actually a really nice amusement park/zoo. As you can see, the cable cars take you to the other side of the mountain, where there are roller coasters and other rides, along with aquariums with sharks and cages full of monkeys and birds. It was also really really quiet. I had purposefully chosen a day when I figured attendance would be somewhat lower, but that day the park was noticeably empty. Vendors were standing around, looking bored. There were almost no lines for the rides. The seats at the shows were half full. I'm sure during peak season this place would be seriously packed with mainland tourists.
I'm not sure why this was such a big deal for me. It's nice to know that something from so long ago (okay, "long ago" in comparison to my life so far) is still around. It amuses me that my brother who lives in Hong Kong now was not born yet when that photo was taken (he was actually in utero, so I always say that, physically, he went to Hong Kong with us that time). I guess I am and always will be a sucker for nostalgia.
Dear Photograph, it took me 30 years to come back, but here I am.
"So you can keep me inside the pocket of your ripped jeans"
Dear Photograph is a website where you submit a photo of a photo from the past in the present. In other words, you go back to where a photo was taken years ago, hold the photo up so it matches the background, and take a photo of it. There's usually a story attached to the photo, typically in the form of a letter addressed to the old photograph. Some of the stories are incredibly awesome. Some are sad (there are a few that people have taken in New York where the Twin Towers used to be).
For me, my ultimate Dear Photograph was to go back to Ocean Park in Hong Kong and take a photo in the same spot where my dad took a photo of me and my brother in front of the mountain with the seahorse logo cut into the landscape. I had tried to do it 2 years ago during my last visit, but I didn't get the chance. As I was planning this trip, I realized the first trip happened just over 30 years ago. So, this time, I was determined to get the photo.
I don't remember very much about that visit to Ocean Park (nor of Tokyo Disney World, which we also visited during the same trip). I was pretty sure it was going to have changed a substantial amount. I mean, Hong Kong changes every 30 days, let alone 30 years. As I entered the park, I could see the seahorse on the mountain right away. So my first order of business was to get to the spot and take the photo. I manoeuvred myself into position, and took the shot:
For context, this is what the spot looks like today:
I don't know if you can tell, but I'm not standing as far away from the mountain as I was during that first photo. But I was standing as far back as I could. After some more investigating, I figured out that the spot where my dad had taken the photo was likely outside of the park, which in the present day has been turned into the tour bus parking lot. So, I guess I technically didn't have to spend the 345HKD to get the photo. But I made the most of it anyway.
It's actually a really nice amusement park/zoo. As you can see, the cable cars take you to the other side of the mountain, where there are roller coasters and other rides, along with aquariums with sharks and cages full of monkeys and birds. It was also really really quiet. I had purposefully chosen a day when I figured attendance would be somewhat lower, but that day the park was noticeably empty. Vendors were standing around, looking bored. There were almost no lines for the rides. The seats at the shows were half full. I'm sure during peak season this place would be seriously packed with mainland tourists.
I'm not sure why this was such a big deal for me. It's nice to know that something from so long ago (okay, "long ago" in comparison to my life so far) is still around. It amuses me that my brother who lives in Hong Kong now was not born yet when that photo was taken (he was actually in utero, so I always say that, physically, he went to Hong Kong with us that time). I guess I am and always will be a sucker for nostalgia.
Dear Photograph, it took me 30 years to come back, but here I am.
"So you can keep me inside the pocket of your ripped jeans"
Wednesday, March 04, 2015
The Most Anti-Social Restaurant
The moment we came back to Hong Kong, my brother had to go to a work function. For some reason, they decided to hold their Chinese New Year Dinner two weeks after the fact. So I was left to find dinner on my own. I was pretty tired after our flight from Melbourne so I decided to go to the interesting ramen restaurant that my brother had taken me to before we left.
This restaurant is utterly fascinating. It's the most anti-social set-up I have ever experienced. There are 3 or 4 rows of booths that look like library cubicles. Every person, regardless of whether you're alone or in a group, has to sit at one of the booths. Each booth has a call button and a faucet where you can dispense your own water. The back of the booth has a bamboo screen that partially hides the corridor in between the rows. You fill out the sheet for your custom bowl of ramen, including how you want your noodles cooked, how oily you want the broth to be, how you like your green onions sliced (thin or thick), how much of the spicy sauce you want to add, how much garlic you like, etc. Then you press the button on your table and a server shows up at your booth, but you don't get to see their face because of the bamboo screen. The only way you can tell them apart is that they wear their name tag on their belt. They take your order, say something in Japanese, bow really low so you can see it, and then walk away. Minutes later someone else returns with your order, says something Japanese and bows again, then lowers the screen all the way down so you can eat in privacy. Here's the crazy part: almost everyone orders a noodle refill. In order to do that, you take the little coloured tray that they give you, place it on top of the button, then press the button so a little music starts to play. Someone raises the screen, takes your coloured tray, and disappears. They come back moments later with a bowl of noodles that you then add to your bowl of broth and continue eating.
This is what it looks like:
When you're done eating, you just take the copy of your sheet from the little box on the right side of the table and bring it to the cashier to pay.
For those of us who find ourselves awkwardly eating alone: Best. Idea. Ever.
"Now I'm four five seconds from wildin', and we got three more days 'til Friday"
This restaurant is utterly fascinating. It's the most anti-social set-up I have ever experienced. There are 3 or 4 rows of booths that look like library cubicles. Every person, regardless of whether you're alone or in a group, has to sit at one of the booths. Each booth has a call button and a faucet where you can dispense your own water. The back of the booth has a bamboo screen that partially hides the corridor in between the rows. You fill out the sheet for your custom bowl of ramen, including how you want your noodles cooked, how oily you want the broth to be, how you like your green onions sliced (thin or thick), how much of the spicy sauce you want to add, how much garlic you like, etc. Then you press the button on your table and a server shows up at your booth, but you don't get to see their face because of the bamboo screen. The only way you can tell them apart is that they wear their name tag on their belt. They take your order, say something in Japanese, bow really low so you can see it, and then walk away. Minutes later someone else returns with your order, says something Japanese and bows again, then lowers the screen all the way down so you can eat in privacy. Here's the crazy part: almost everyone orders a noodle refill. In order to do that, you take the little coloured tray that they give you, place it on top of the button, then press the button so a little music starts to play. Someone raises the screen, takes your coloured tray, and disappears. They come back moments later with a bowl of noodles that you then add to your bowl of broth and continue eating.
This is what it looks like:
When you're done eating, you just take the copy of your sheet from the little box on the right side of the table and bring it to the cashier to pay.
For those of us who find ourselves awkwardly eating alone: Best. Idea. Ever.
"Now I'm four five seconds from wildin', and we got three more days 'til Friday"
Tuesday, March 03, 2015
Discoveries
Things I have discovered in Melbourne:
The Great Ocean Road is something that I quite honestly had never heard of before I started planning this trip. But it's one of the top recommended things to do in Melbourne. Okay, so it's not technically in Melbourne, but it starts really close to it. Modelled after the Pacific Coast Highway, it was built by returning WWI veterans. They were conscientious enough to realize that they should avoid exposing the vets to more explosive situations, so they didn't use dynamite to blast the path through the hills along the coast. They did it all manually with picks. Crazy.
The Twelve Apostles are a great example of what happens when you have a lot of time and a lot of water crashing around you for eons:
The Great Ocean Road is something that I quite honestly had never heard of before I started planning this trip. But it's one of the top recommended things to do in Melbourne. Okay, so it's not technically in Melbourne, but it starts really close to it. Modelled after the Pacific Coast Highway, it was built by returning WWI veterans. They were conscientious enough to realize that they should avoid exposing the vets to more explosive situations, so they didn't use dynamite to blast the path through the hills along the coast. They did it all manually with picks. Crazy.
The Twelve Apostles are a great example of what happens when you have a lot of time and a lot of water crashing around you for eons:
It was pointed out to us that there were never 12 of these to begin with (it was just a better name than the "sow and piglets", as they were originally called). But it's also amazing to consider that these will eventually disappear altogether, and that new ones are currently forming.
If things had happened differently, I would not be in Melbourne. I would be visiting Batmania. Not kidding.
I had never before had any interest in cricket. I just didn't get it. But during these past couple of weeks the occasional lack of TV channel choices in our hotel and in almost every bar has forced me to watch the Cricket World Cup. I also met one of my brother's friends who, not only knew the rules for cricket, but also really likes cricket. I have to admit, it's starting to grow on me. I even kind of understand what's going on most of the time.
"And I will stay up through the night, let's be clear, won't close my eyes"
Friday, February 27, 2015
Not Quite Terminal
I did it! Okay, so I didn't do it quite the way I had thought I would (i.e., head first or upside down) but I did it. The Nevis Swing is the biggest swing in the world. It's a 70 m vertical drop, with an arc of about 300 m. People can reach a speed of 125 km/h. So, you don't quite achieve terminal velocity, but it doesn't really matter. It feels fast enough. But tell me what you think.
"Hope when the moment comes you'll say, I, I did it all"
"Hope when the moment comes you'll say, I, I did it all"
Thursday, February 26, 2015
Too Much Awesome
I forgot to mention in yesterday's post that Air New Zealand has quite frankly the best cabin safety video of all time. In what they called "the most epic safety video", the entire thing has a Lord of the Rings theme. There are a few cameos and they were able to use elements from the movies to explain how to buckle your seat belt and use the oxygen mask. There were elves, dwarves, orcs, everything. Seriously, very awesome.
Today's drive through Middle Earth was also awesome. We left Christchurch and headed south to Aoraki/Mount Cook. It was really overcast to start, but by the time we got to the mountains it was clear and sunny. Then the awesome scenery started. Honestly, sometimes there is just too much awesome to take in all at once. I tried taking photos from the car (because we weren't stopping for anything), but I'm sure they're blurry and don't quite capture just how amazing it was to see it. The snow capped mountains peaking above the clouds, the lakes that were so blue and smooth they didn't look real. At the mountain, we hiked the trail that took us up close to one of the glaciers and had a better view of Mount Cook. As we made our way from Mount Cook to Queenstown, we went through Lindis Pass which was basically driving between 2 mountain ranges. The awesome kept going even as we were getting into Queenstown, which is situated within the mountains next to a lake with spectacular views all around. I've already declared it my new favourite place.
It's late and the epic journey continues tomorrow as I dive off a platform using the world's tallest swing. To be continued (hopefully)...
"Don't believe me, just watch"
Today's drive through Middle Earth was also awesome. We left Christchurch and headed south to Aoraki/Mount Cook. It was really overcast to start, but by the time we got to the mountains it was clear and sunny. Then the awesome scenery started. Honestly, sometimes there is just too much awesome to take in all at once. I tried taking photos from the car (because we weren't stopping for anything), but I'm sure they're blurry and don't quite capture just how amazing it was to see it. The snow capped mountains peaking above the clouds, the lakes that were so blue and smooth they didn't look real. At the mountain, we hiked the trail that took us up close to one of the glaciers and had a better view of Mount Cook. As we made our way from Mount Cook to Queenstown, we went through Lindis Pass which was basically driving between 2 mountain ranges. The awesome kept going even as we were getting into Queenstown, which is situated within the mountains next to a lake with spectacular views all around. I've already declared it my new favourite place.
It's late and the epic journey continues tomorrow as I dive off a platform using the world's tallest swing. To be continued (hopefully)...
"Don't believe me, just watch"
Wednesday, February 25, 2015
Middle Earth is a Fortress
First off, greetings from the far future. Eighteen hours ahead of home, it's safe to say that whenever you're reading this, I'm already in tomorrow.
If you ever decide to go to New Zealand, be ready. It's like being in a really intense episode of "Border Security". I have never been grilled at customs like we were upon entering Christchurch. Then, after getting through the third degree and picking up our luggage, we were asked again if we had any food on us, then our bags were x-rayed, then the sniffer dog came to check them. Like, wow.
It's been a bit of a blur since last night. We got in really late, then had to wake up to fit in as much as we could since we only had one day in Christchurch. I want to say it's a nice place, and I'm sure it is, but looking around at the empty lots, the crumbling buildings, the steel girders bracing walls, and the abundant amount of scaffolding, it makes me kind of sad, like we're looking at a war zone. Of course, having to rebuild after a major earthquake is going to take time, just like any place that's recovering from a natural disaster (think Haiti). And they've come up with some interesting ways of dealing with it for now. The Re:START Mall is a shopping centre built out of shipping containers.
The main cathedral was seriously damaged.
So they build the Cardboard Cathedral. Literally.
I'm still glad I made a stop here. But no time to waste. Next stops: Aoraki/Mount Cook and Queenstown.
"Pretty soon I'll be getting on my first plane, I'll see the veins of my city like they do in space"
If you ever decide to go to New Zealand, be ready. It's like being in a really intense episode of "Border Security". I have never been grilled at customs like we were upon entering Christchurch. Then, after getting through the third degree and picking up our luggage, we were asked again if we had any food on us, then our bags were x-rayed, then the sniffer dog came to check them. Like, wow.
It's been a bit of a blur since last night. We got in really late, then had to wake up to fit in as much as we could since we only had one day in Christchurch. I want to say it's a nice place, and I'm sure it is, but looking around at the empty lots, the crumbling buildings, the steel girders bracing walls, and the abundant amount of scaffolding, it makes me kind of sad, like we're looking at a war zone. Of course, having to rebuild after a major earthquake is going to take time, just like any place that's recovering from a natural disaster (think Haiti). And they've come up with some interesting ways of dealing with it for now. The Re:START Mall is a shopping centre built out of shipping containers.
The main cathedral was seriously damaged.
So they build the Cardboard Cathedral. Literally.
I'm still glad I made a stop here. But no time to waste. Next stops: Aoraki/Mount Cook and Queenstown.
"Pretty soon I'll be getting on my first plane, I'll see the veins of my city like they do in space"
Monday, February 23, 2015
The Things You Learn
They thought it would take them three years and $7 million to build the Sydney Opera House. It took them sixteen years and $102 million. But it's pretty much stayed the same since it opened around 40 years ago, so I guess they got their money's worth.
Manly was named after some good looking aboriginal guys. No, I didn't see any.
Sydney's been interesting. Not, as my mother claimed, like Canada from the 1970's. I even understood what most people were saying. I tried some Vegemite (as I suspected, it's not for me), I ate some kangaroo, I got to lie on one of the most famous beaches in the world, I rode ferries almost daily.
I would write more but I have to find a bank machine to reset my credit card pin, and then we have to head to the airport to start the next part of the adventure. See you in Christchurch.
"Livin' easy, lovin' free, season ticket on a one way ride"
Manly was named after some good looking aboriginal guys. No, I didn't see any.
Sydney's been interesting. Not, as my mother claimed, like Canada from the 1970's. I even understood what most people were saying. I tried some Vegemite (as I suspected, it's not for me), I ate some kangaroo, I got to lie on one of the most famous beaches in the world, I rode ferries almost daily.
I would write more but I have to find a bank machine to reset my credit card pin, and then we have to head to the airport to start the next part of the adventure. See you in Christchurch.
"Livin' easy, lovin' free, season ticket on a one way ride"
Friday, February 20, 2015
Woolloomooloo!
Woolloomooloo
has become my new favourite place where I wished I lived ONLY so I could say
the name on a regular basis. It has replaced the longtime former
favourite, Rancho Cucamonga, which still runs a very close second because I once really had a legitimately possible chance to live there.
Granted, Woolloomooloo's origins are a bit unsavoury, mostly due to
the proximity to the naval base, but it's cleaned up in recent years.
After a
couple of long plane rides, we've made it to Sydney. Within hours of
arriving, I was able to witness my first funny thing: they take the
whole “left-hand side” thing very seriously, and not just in
driving. On the escalators at the train stations, you stand on the
left hand side and walk on the right. Even on the Sydney Bridge,
people were naturally walking/running on the left hand side of the
path. It's weird because everywhere else, even in Hong Kong, it's always been "stand left, walk right" on the escalators. I guess everything is backwards here. We have yet to see if the water swirls in the opposite direction, mostly because the toilets here are European designed, which essentially means that they dump water straight down at full force. As much as that sounds effective, sometimes it's really not.
This is the furthest into the future that I've ever travelled (sixteen hours ahead). It's also full blown summer temps so I've been a sweaty mess for most of the day, and my head is pretty mixed up right now. Must sleep and reboot.
"Do you come from a land down under, where women glow and men plunder"